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individuals accept themselves more fully,they often become more accepting of
others.This is the opposite of self-alienation,which occurs when we fail to
acknowledge or accept certain aspects of ourselves.We then feel these
qualities are foreign to us and we project them onto others,whom we then
dislike.For example,the man who,while denying his own dependency needs,
appears to be strong and self-sufficient may feel contempt for men who allow
themselves to be taken care of when weak or ill.As you can see,personal
growth may be unsettling at times.It involves moving away from some of the
familiar self-images acquired during our formative years.And it involves
seeing yourself in new ways,especially as a more self-directed person.Because
each of us has different values and goals there is no detailed guide to assure
us that we are doing the right thing.Nevertheless,understanding the general pattern
of growth,as prescribed by Rogers,may be helpful.And remember,“the good
life is a process,not a state of being.It is a direction,not a destination”
(Rogers,1961,p.186)