英语翻译I have spent nothing close to the time I wanted to with

英语翻译
I have spent nothing close to the time I wanted to with my two daughters.True,there should be some rules against well-paid people complaining about their lot in life,but the three-way balance among work ,family and the non-job,non-kid things that add much spice to life-----whatever happend to my tennis game or the trips to foreign lands?----is nothing like what my wife and I imagined it would be.It is not just women who are wakened that morden life has not fulfilled their various needs.So are millions of men who wanted their marriage tobe a true partnership of equals.